The 8 Rules of Relationships:
1. Couples Communication
2. Personal Boundaries and Interests
3. Money Matters - Talk About It
4. Date Night - Go Out Weekly and Connect
5. Share Your Needs & Listen to the Needs of Your Partner
6. Intimacy - Create the Time
7. Get out of your Comfort Zone
8. Create a Relationship Vision
Lynn has found that couples who divorce tend to slowly lose that “loving feeling” over time, focusing on the negative aspects of the relationship or their partner and becoming more critical of each other. It was the feeling of "Are we really having that same argument, again." These unresolved issues, feeling unimportant, hurt, and misunderstood lead to the gradual decrease in loving thoughts, actions, affection and validation. In the end it was not the fighting and the conflict but the aftermath of unresolved issues that ends most relationships.